My son spent a few days in the hospital last week. He has rare and potentially serious health risks so his doctors tend to be extremely cautious, and because of his symptoms, he was admitted to the hospital . Thankfully, it wasn’t serious and he was able to come home yesterday where he is recovering quickly. We rejoice and praise God!
There is nothing I have experienced in life harder than watching my child, my son, suffer in pain, endure medical tests, procedures, and surgeries, and fight for his life. He has battled many, many times and we have faced the very real possibility of having to say goodbye.
Thankfully, through prayer and amazing medical miracles, God has brought healing. He has also brought strength!Enduring through these health scares has deepened my faith exponentially. It has strengthened my husband’s faith, our family’s faith, even friends have shared how much they have learned to trust God as they have prayed for our son! We rejoice and praise God!
Throughout every challenge in life, health, financial, emotional, you name it, God is faithful! He never leaves us, never forsakes us, and never, ever abandons us to face trials on our own. His powerful, comforting presence is always with us. But He doesn’t always remove the challenge right away. And, we must accept that He may not remove it at all.
We’ve heard the saying that sometimes He calms the storm, and sometimes He calms His child. This is true, and, either way, He wants deeper, stronger faith that can withstand any storm.
My best friend recently shared a tender moment between her and her daughter that has touched my heart and reminded me about the importance of growing spiritually. She has been experiencing horrible aches and growing pains that keep her awake at night. One night, recently, she asked her mom…
“Why can’t I just grow peacefully?”
But growth it seems is never peaceful. We earn our character, stature, height, wisdom…our maturity comes from growing, and growing almost always hurts! And just like a child who is getting bigger, we must earn our spiritual growth too.
God wants our faith to be stronger, and our understanding of Him to continually grow deeper. He desires for us to grow in wisdom and love. But He also knows that to receive the full benefits, to reap the full rewards, we have to endure the growing process. And, that often means growing pains.
When hardships and trials come or tragedy blindsides us, we may be tempted to cry out in anger and ask God “Why? Why did this happen? Why did You allow this?” And in these moments of heartache, in the midst of suffering, and during the struggle, we are faced with a choice. And it is a huge choice with life-changing consequences–eternal consequences!
We Must Choose
Option 1~~We can trust God, remembering His faithfulness, reminding ourselves that if He has allowed this pain, then He will use it for good. We can choose to trust God and allow Him to bring comfort, love and peace through the growing process, understanding and remembering that we will reap the benefits of a more mature, enduring faith, even in the pain and suffering of the moment.
Option 2~~We can get angry, allowing unforgiveness and bitterness to take root and grow. We can focus on our pain and the situation, only looking inward at ourselves and our own feelings. We can run from God and unwittingly choose to live in agony. Our pain will grow, and the hope inside us will begin to die.
The choice is completely ours to make. We must choose wisely and we must be intentional about our choice. God will never force us to Himself, but He will call us and empower us with wisdom…if we ask. So how do we choose correctly? How do we ensure that in the hardest moments of our life, our faith will stand?
Ideally, we will begin to prepare our hearts and minds before tragedy strikes. Jesus has warned us that we will face trials of every kind, hardships, even persecution. We need to live aware of the risks, but even more aware of the power of God which is in us. Choose right now, today, how you want to react to the next struggle. The trial will come, but Jesus has already overcome!
Prayer is a powerful weapon and essential to living on purpose. God is fully aware of what He will allow in our lives. He is also fully prepared to help us, lead us, guide us, and teach us through every situation if we let Him. Spend time in His presence before, during, and after hardships–in every moment, God’s Spirit is with us and He will use all things for good–let Him!
Transparency and humility will make all the difference! We must put aside our pride, stop trying to “have it all together”, and we must recognize the sin of relying on our own strength to persevere.
We tend to respect and reward stoic, “I can do this” attitudes, forgetting that it is God who is the true source of strength. We weep in private and smile in public. We fake endurance and decline help when it is offered. And we are not only robbing ourselves of the true healing strength that God offers, we deprive others the joy of serving God and loving His bride.
We know we can’t always control our circumstances, but we can decide how we will react to them. And in every moment of life, we have a life or death choice to make.